Life after a breakup…!
“ He dumped me again, This time it’s for real”. I hear one of my friends say, weeping uncontrollably. We tell her it’s okay, but we know it not. It won’t be, not for another month anyway.
Much has been said about love, but what about when it doesn’t work out? How do you come to terms with the fact that it didn’t work out with the person you loved with all your soul ( and other deep metaphors) and it’s done with probably forever? Well, you don’t. At any time point in life, being in a relationship with another person is the exchange of ideas, thoughts, opinions among-st other things. How is it to be guaranteed that another person will always comply by what you think and say, and not judge you by putting forth his own opinion that he has a right to? You worth towards it. You talk to the another person and still, if it doesn’t work out, it probably wasn’t meant tp be. That’s what you have got to tell yourself. Self pity isn’t always the worst thing. You have got to believe in yourself, your capabilities, your talent and assure yourself that there is a life beyond love not working out once. That you have amazing family, friends to look forward to in life who have forever been supportive towards you , and been there for you. There are places to be explored, and people to meet, begin on your journey and you are bound to reach your destination if you do not get overwhelmed by obstacles.
After all, love is all the little things, isn’t it?
