I Am A Girl Not Your Toy

“I’m tough, I’m ambitious, and I know exactly what I want. If that makes me a bitch, okay.”
― Madonna

I dont know what feminism is all about but if I make statements which differ me from a doormat then yes I am a feminist! If I fail to do certain work then no one says you failed because you were not capable enough, but you failed because you are a woman, and its not your cup of tea. Really? From driving vehicles on road to driving in men’s fantasy world, women are criticized everywhere. “Oh she is not so good in bed!!” What do you expect? We are not some professional sluts to satisfy your never ending lust.

You ogle at us, you pass obscene comments, you make gestures to tease us! WHY?? You think we are some object to play with? If we walk in hot pants it arouses you. We are blamed for being enchanting. But dear guys, can’t you practice some art of self control?

If I express my carnal needs then i become a bitch but if a guy does the same then its his birthright! Wow, how hypocrite is that. I agree we are stunning, we are gorgeous and worth all the drools but still you should maintain certain decency when you address us. Calling us babe, hottie and darling isn’t cool.

If we wear something revealing then it is to make a style statement and not to get those uncalled sleazy remarks. Just because we apply mascara, eye liner, red lipstick and nail paint, doesn’t make us a slut. Control your fantasies in your pockets and let us live our life the way we want.

Why should I compromise on my dressing when you can obviously control your urge! We don’t demand any special rights for us, we deserve equal rights. If guys can walk freely after a late night party, we want to do the same. If guys can gulp down bottles of beers so can we. We live in the so called world of gender equality where the only equal treatment we get is by compromising!!