9 Things Every Indian Woman Post 25 Should Adopt

The age of post 25 is something that calls for tons of things to be attended. From having a constant focus on career or jobs, to handling that social stand, being a woman in India post 25 years is indeed no less than a milestone. It is during this period when you are neither that rebellious adolescent nor the super-passionate girl of twenties. The age of post 25 for every Indian woman at least brings with itself a typical set of tons of responsibilities along with the maturity that needs to be attended to for the rest of the life. To every woman out there, who are post 25, we bring you a small list of things that definitely needs to be adopted to make yourselves no less than a diva.

● Be Emotionally Independent

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We totally understand that some women are the princesses of their parents; being pampered with lots of love. But at the same time, it is important to understand that at this age you must also be independent with respect to emotions. It is a harsh reality that our parents, who understand us perfectly, won’t be there for the whole life. Neither would your boyfriend or husband can perfectly understand you, even after being together for a couple of years, Thus, at this juncture, you must realize that being emotionally independent is all your responsibility. Don’t depend on the others for making you feel good; neither should you expect them to come along with surprises that can enliven your mood any time. It’s completely your life and no one but you must know how to handle yourself and most importantly must know how to make yourself happy.

● Be Financially Independent

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Yes, this is actually VERY VERY important. You can be born with a silver spoon or can be married off to a family with a palace. But all along, you must make sure that you yourself have your own independent financial stand. No one, not even you know what the future beholds. Thus to avoid any kind of uncertain financial mishap and also to create a strong foothold for the long-run get yourself a job. Again this is not about being selfish. Being financially independent actually means to make your future strong and not being liable to anyone for some mere bucks.

● Get Rid Off The “Perfect-Body-Image”

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It’s totally high time ladies to get off this typical complex that surrounds with respect to the perfect body. Your body is solely yourself and it’s actually perfect in every way. You can neither be too fat nor you can be too slim.Those dark circles underneath your eyes don’t at the same time define your personality; nor does your dusky complexion. Leave behind all these typical issues and stop your mirror or the weighing machine to determine your attitude.

● Know How To Cook

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No this is not important because you are a woman; but is important because you must know. No, this is also not at all important because you must know how to please, oh please, no!
You may detest cooking but that cannot alter the fact that you must know the job. Like being financially and emotionally independent, get yourself ready to cook yourself some tasty dishes and let your taste buds have a jolly time.

● Stop Succumbing To Societal Pressures

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Now this is definitely one of the most important habits that women post 25 must adopt. If you are not married, it’s totally cool. If you are in a relationship, that’s perfectly okay. You want to go for a live-in relationship, go ahead. Don’t keep clinging to answering the endless questions of those aunties or those of your neighbours. In case you are confused, the best you can rely upon is on your parents. If don’t want to get married now and want to further pursue your job, it’s is actually okay. Try listening what your heart says, instead of the words of the society. Try living your life to the fullest.

● Know The Importance Of Your Parents

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“Parents are always right.” Must have heard this quote quite a lot of times right? Believe it or not, most of the times it is true. It’s high time for you to understand the sacrifices that they made only for you. Try making them happy once in a while by gifting them something that they always longed for but just couldn’t because they were busy making you happy or try calling them more than just once or twice in a week. Trust me, they will be super happy. Instead of arguing with respect to certain ideas, stay calm and listen to what they have to say. Their experience actually surpasses our present knowledge.

● Be Wise Not “Choosy” For Your Partner

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In case you want to get married or you want to be in a serious relationship, it’s important to be practical. Don’t keep believing that you shall get a perfect husband or a man; nor keep grasping to the popular belief that a prince-like man shall come and shall make you happy in every possible way, just like it happens in movies. No, there are no such men in reality. At the same time, don’t be totally blind with respect to a man’s financial prospects. If you are not happy in any relationship or if you are having some bad instinct with respect to anyone, try clearing that. Be wise and choose the one who can make you happy actually in the long run.

● Try Staying Offline

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Yeah, we understand how important it is to upload those re-union pics in Instagram and also how important it is update the status in Facebook when you went for a date. But it’s also important for you to understand how social media is actually making you a typical puppet. Try staying offline for as long as possible and employ that time in doing some productive stuff like getting associated with an NGO or being a part-time teacher.

● Read Books

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You may have hated books when you were in school, but you just cannot deny the fact that books can be your best friend. Get yourself to read some classics like Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights, Pride and Prejudice or simply those hilarious novels of Wodehouse and understand what literature actually comprises of. In case you don’t like classics, there are many other books as well in the shelf. Just grab a book that can make you happy perfectly with words. Books can actually be better than boyfriends.
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