8 reasons why one should speak frankly with their parents.
Remember those days when you were so little that your father had to carry you over his shoulders. Or when your mother stayed up all night only because you weren’t well. Yes, those were the days when no one but your parents understood and knew what you needed. However now after growing, it becomes really difficult to understand them and make them understand us as well. Those who have really cool and frank parents seriously are quite blessed. But those who don’t have must start communicating in the friendliest possible manner. Not only that eases everything but makes a parent-child relationship a healthier one. In case you are still skeptical with thought of being frank with your parents, here are some of the reasons that enlighten the importance of such a relationship.
● Because it brings you closer
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No matter how many friends you have or no matter how successful you are in your respective career, you can’t deny that the only ones who are true and honest with you, are your parents. Having a healthy and a frank conversation further cements the relationship between you two; which in itself brings you closer.
● Because it makes them feel supportive
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All the while we are growing up, we often tend to forget that our parents are also growing older. Any kind of severe or formal relationship between a child and his/her parents can make the latter feel lonely or distanced, something which is actually not that good. On the other hand, if you have an open or a friendly relationship, your parents shall know that even after growing up, you actually keep them as one of the most important priorities.
● Because their experience is simply unmatched
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Yes, the experience that your parents share is not just unique but also significant for you. When you are able to speak frankly, not only you shall be able to speak openly about your problems, but also shall be able to seek experienced and most importantly genuine solutions.
● Because your parents are your ONLY true friends
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Times may come and go, this one fact can never be changed. You need to be frank and quite open with your parents because it is only them who can be called as your true and honest friends. When you are able to discuss any issue, be it about your gf/bf or your studies, nobody can guide you better than your parents.
● Because it helps retaining the family values
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The more you grow closer and be open with your parents, the more there are chances to retain the family values which are actually really important in this modern era. Children shall be able to know the importance of some societal norms like importance of family and significance of elders.
● Because that makes parents understand their children better
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The more you are open with your parents, the more your parents shall be able to understand your perspectives. This shall further help them to cope up with certain situations and can make them support you.
● Because you shall feel better
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Trust me, sharing any issue and being open with parents can actually make you feel better. That Midas touch mother’s consolation and that father’s support of being with you no matter what may happen can actually make you feel quite a lot better and lesser lonely.
● And lastly because they are always right
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Yes, parents are always right! And the more you are frank with them, the more you shall be able to get hold of right decisions. Their experience and their vision of life, when combined with our generation’s modern attitude can truly produce genuine results.
