KEEP THE PASSION ALIVE
It’s a natural things for the passion between a couple to wane after a few years in to the relationship. What start off as red-hot can’t keep our hands off each other’ action between the sheets just once a week or once a month. And while some couple learn to exits comfortably, in many cases this may lead to a complete breakdown of the relationship and that’s not something you want happening with yours.
Remember, passion is one of the key ingredients in keeping a couple tighter and consequently their relationship rocking.
Here’s how you can reignite that lost spark and keep it burning.
SAY I LOVE YOU
You may have said it like a million times as a couple as a couple in the courting phase so what is stopping you from doing it now that are committed or married. Don’t save your emotion for special occasions or days. Remember a successful relationship is work in progress and needs to be tended to every day. Hence make it point to express feeling of love and tell your partner just how much you love them every days. And if you’re busy schedules aren’t allowing both o you can to spend as much time together as you would like it you also leave him/her little love notes on the fridge or in a pocket or in a pocket or in the lunch box. Else just sms him/her with a simple ‘I luv u’ it will work just as perfectly.
CELEBRATE YOUR LOVE
Take time out to celebrate each other and the love that you share. Birthdays anniversaries’ and Valentine’s Day are the perfect excuse to go extra mile – dress up get him/her flowers and gift gout for a meal go dancing take a long drive etc. if you’re not in the mood to do anything fancy just indulge in a favorite activity tougher like catching up on your favorite movie or playing a game of scrabble or listening to your favorite song. Tougher on anniversary is to go through your wedding album or watching your wedding video together. It will undoubtedly bring all the good memories of that happy day.
‘NO KIDS’ HOLIDAYS
Of course, not everyone loves heading out on a good family vacation but then if this is all you did it would be too different from a normal outing. You don’t need to take your kids trooping along in each and every vacation you go on. Having time to yourselves will as a couple. Leave the kids the someone trusted and head out for your own special ‘couple time’, even if it’s for just the weekend. Being away from those young prying eyes and not having to worry about them 24*7 is sure to make you feel a lot less inhibited and lead up to some sizzling hot romance. Also remember that this is your special time so do not disuses like home, work and other nagging problems just enjoy being with each other even if it means that you sit side by side in absolute silence watching the sunset or walking down the beach hand in hand.
LOVE COUPLES:
If your partner had done some unexpected good deed rather than just acknowledging it with a mere thank you present him/her with a redeemable love coupon. Tell your partner that the coupons can be exchanged for a host of freebies like free massage a foot rub a shower tougher or even an exotic holiday. Be as innovative as you can your partner is sure to enjoy the suspense and excitement of not knowing what’s in store for him/her and the excitement when you actually tell them what the reward is.
VOICE OUT YOUR SECRET FANTASY
So you’ve always fantasized about how you’d want your partner to make love to you. But unless you actually tell him/her explicitly, you can’t really them to imagine what turn you on. Even though you may think, it’s a silly thing to do remember this can be a potent aphrodisiac. And if you’re still too shy to indulge in a bit of ‘dirty talk’ here’s a solution. But a book of erotic stories or poetry wrap it up innovatively and gift it to your partner. You can then read it out together.
FLIRT:
Just like saying, ‘I love you’ to often is a good habit a bit of flirting can also spice up things faster than you can imagine. Go back to the start of your relationship and think of the various ways your flirted with each other to catch the other’s attention. If something worked for you then it’s bound to work now too. Recall the most successful flirting techniques and indulged in it without telling your partner. It may take them a bit of time to realize that you’re flirting but once they get the hint(and recall the good old courting days) the sparks will start flying again.
