9 Perks Every Girl Who Is An Only Daughter Would Relate To
No wonder every parent loves his/her daughters and sons, no matter how many they have to feed or how many they need to nurture. Yet amidst all, the honour and the reputation of being the only daughter is quite unique and most importantly quite a lot precious. Of course, there are still many families out there who are still seeking to some of the infamous practices like female foeticide or female infanticide. But at the same time, there are also many families that simply take care of their daughters no less than princesses. And in case these daughters are the only ones, the care gets multiplied to several times. The added Indian drama that makes it compulsory for the daughters to leave their parents only to get married to another family simply makes her nurturing more beautiful and more pampering. Thus dedicated to all the only daughters out there, who always have had been princesses and the apple of eyes, especially for their parents, here are some of the perks that girls who are the only daughters can easily relate to.
They Are Totally Pampered
From waking up at 10 am to hanging out with as many friends as they want, girls who are the only daughters are pampered in every possible way. From the mothers who always try their best to make the best of dishes to those doting fathers who always seeks to joke around only to bring a smile on your face, being the only daughter means you should be all set to be pampered like no one else. And it is this pampering and sweet nurturing that makes you feel absolutely like a royal princess.
They Are Always Saved
Since the only-daughters are totally pampered and are almost raised up like princesses, for most of the time, they are always saved by someone or the other in the family. If they have an older sibling, things can actually turn quite a lot better. If the father scolds, the mother would be there, if the mother scolds, the father would be there and if both of them scold, the elder sibling would always be there. And if three of them scold, then the grandmothers and the grandfathers or at least the maternal or paternal uncles or aunts would always be there. For most of the times, someone is always there either to save them or to console them.
They Can Somehow Get What They Want
Being pampered since childhood, the only daughters gradually tend to develop the attitude of knowing or getting only affirmative answers. And again due to this fact, most of these girls actually get what they want in some way or the other. For most of the times, this can include them coaxing either their mothers or their fathers. And like being saved, even if both of them can’t be instrumental enough, they are all set to coax their elder siblings. Getting what they want is actually quite an easy job for them.
They Often Use “Emotional Atyachar”
What’s better than crying in front of their parents only to show that they are sad. This is actually one of the biggest perks that most of the only-daughters enjoy with complete subtlety. In case nothing works, the last man standing has to be the evergreen tear ducts. They smartly know that no parent can actually bear the scene of their crying daughter. And this tends to be best armament. Ultimately this also leads them to be experts in creating emotional scenes, after which the parents are bound to say yes to whatever they want.
They Often Become Self-Independent
They are certain issues that daughters simply can’t share with their mothers and that calls for either a sister or a close friend. During times of certain emergencies, especially when you simply can’t get in touch with your close friends, being the only girl-child, you tend to become self-independent. You slowly yet quite steadily realize who you are and what are your priorities and that actually becomes quite a lot helpful in the long run.
The Entire Family Soon Becomes A Matrimonial Agent
And when it is the time to get them married to someone else, the entire “khandaan” comes forward only to make sure that the girl is happily married to a well-settled groom. While the parents jostle to log in in every possible matrimonial site, almost each and every relative is always going around only to get the most appropriate match. And even if they are unable to do anything good, they shall always be there to help in the most possible way. And why do they do this? Well, it is all about the loved and the princess girl.
They Can Easily Opt For Love Marriage
Since they are the princesses of their families, girls who are the only daughters hardly face any issue when they want to opt for a love marriage. Again the process is quite simple, if the father is against, the mother is there; if mother is against, well someone is definitely there. Anyone can come up from the family only to make sure that the girl is happy. Because like again, girls who are the only daughters somehow get what they want.
The Pre-Wedding Days Pampers Them Even More
And when it’s almost the fortunate and the unfortunate time of bidding farewell to the princess, the entire family makes sure that they can pamper their princess with the best of efforts during these pre-wedding days. From cooking the favourite dishes to allowing them to hang out as much as possible with their friends, these pre-wedding days tend to be the most pampering ones in their lifetimes. The most interesting fact is that these days at once tend to be really beautiful yet quite quite a lot touching.
The Ultimate Wedding Day Turns To Be The Happiest Yet Saddest Day
And when it’s the final day of the wedding, the princess is not only decked with the best of clothes and cosmetics but is also showered with immense love and blessings. From the nanis to the age-old aunties, you must get ready to receive tons of advices from each one of them. And no, not all of them actually meddle with your choices. They give advice because they only want you to be happy. After all, you had been the proud princess of the entire family.
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