10 Ways To Win A Girl’s Heart
They say understanding girls is not just tough but is actually impossible. What they actually don’t say is that they seriously don’t know basic human psychology. Winning a girl’s heart is actually one of the simplest jobs, with the only requirement that of patience. The essential art of winning any girl’s heart lies in the sole fact as to how much can you understand her needs and requirements; as like boys, girls too are different from each other. And once you understand these basic differences that lies between one girl to the other, wooing anyone can be actually quite easy. In case you too are struggling with impressing a girl, here is a list comprising of few hacks that can be seriously quite helpful to win your princess’ heart.
● Be A Gentleman
Boys must understand that genuine and smart girls at least, are not quite attracted towards the swaggers or those who “claim” themselves to be really cool. Girls actually like guys who act more like a gentleman. A girl often doesn’t want to be treated like a queen but at the same time she wants you to take her as your princess. Girls mostly get impressed with manners and most importantly speakable personality. You can open the car door or can pull the chair letting her to sit. Or you can even try going unconventional by gifting books instead of flowers. Try walking beside her instead of just being too close. Being a gentleman is actually quite like being selfless.
● Be Confident
Now being confident seriously doesn’t mean being loaded with attitude. Also this doesn’t mean that you should be entailed with ego as well. Remember girls absolutely hate men with ego. While conversing with her, irrespective if you are meeting her personally or via online, just try making up conversations with those issues with which you are completely comfortable or acquainted with. At the same time, it would also be absolutely a bad idea to be completely open. Be steady yet firm!
● Be Close With Her Friends
No matter how much your girl is close to you, for her her friends are always more important than yours. For winning a girl’s heart it is seriously important to win the hearts of her friends as well. And in case you are able to impress her bestie, whoa, you can be all good to go. This step of being close with her friend circle, can also be really helpful to know about her likes and dislikes; based on which you can further plan other occasions or can give her some gifts. This would also show that you are genuinely concerned to make her happy instead of putting all the limelight on yourself.
● Be Hygienic
Men must understand that every girl actually likes and sometimes even respect men who give ample importance to hygiene. And this applies not just for one or two dates but for every single time you go to meet the girl. Take a daily bath and groom yourself by shaving, and in case you want to keep the bearded or moustached look, make sure it looks neat instead of clustering facial hair simply here and there. Instead of using a cologne, use a classy deodorant. Girls simply love great smell.
● Be Humourous
If you can make a girl laugh, you can actually then go easy. However don’t take this as an advantage. Just try being her good friend. Before making the big plunge of downright proposing, it is important to make her trust you as she would have trusted her special one. You must first make her believe that you can actually bring a smile on her face, no matter what the situation is.
● Be Complimentary
Every girl, no matter how old she is seriously loves to be heaped with compliments. Once in a while, when she is busy playing with her locks, tell her that she is beautiful. Or when she is having a bad time, just encourage her by saying that she is a brave girl. When she meets you without make-up, you can even say that she looks really quite a lot beautiful even without makeup. And all the while, just make sure of one thing that you are absolutely true and genuine.
● Respect Her
The saying, “Loving her is the second thing, first learn to respect her” should actually be applied in real life. Every girl, no matter of which nation she belongs to always want others to respect her. You must first learn to respect her decisions regarding her career and her personal life. And in case you feel that she is going wrong, you can try make her understand in a gentle way. Just don’t force or pressurise on her with respect to your decisions. C’mon, she doesn’t want a teacher in you!
● Flirt With Her
Once when the girl is comfortable with you, you can try flirting with her. Based on her temperament, you can either flirt with her openly or can do the same with discretion. It would be however wise to begin the process discreetly, as that will help you know if she is comfortable with the same. Once she reverts with similar interest, you can be more obvious from the next time. Just make sure to stay subtle.
● Be Honest
Honesty is always the best policy. And this age-old proverb also applies when you want to win a girl’s heart. If like her dress, tell her; but if you don’t it’s better to stay either diplomatic and gently frank. You should neither be fake nor should you be lying. For being more honest, you can open up by telling her about your dreams or ambitions. Just make sure that all along it’s not all about , “me, me and me”. Just make her believe you too trust her and believe in her.
● Be Protective Not Possessive
Let her know that you actually care about her. If she is going to get a cab, walk with her and help her get one. If she is going for a jog or simply for a walk at night, tell her you want to accompany her and that you want her to be safe. If you are at a club and she wants to go over the restroom, accompany her. The more you let her know that you care for her, she can be more impressed.
With all these tips, just get ready to go ahead. All along these just make sure that you are all yourself. Faking around would seriously do no good. Remember when you are walking along the lanes of truth, games shan’t be quite necessary.
