12 Things Your Parents Will Never Tell You.
1. That you were adopted.
“No no, I didn’t have to take any efforts into your birth, I brought you from the orphanage, someone dumped you there.” This is the kind of conversation one hopes that he never has with his parents or even a sensible parent will avoid in his life. So if you been adopted as a kid, you can be sure that the chances that you will never be told are highly likely.
2. That you were unplanned.
Something that goes on the lines of “Your father and I weren’t really looking forward to have you, but we had no other option” parents usually refrain from telling this kids. Therefore, if it was an unplanned pregnancy and your parents had to settle, odds are they won’t be telling you about it.
3. You’re not in the will.
Sometimes, to avoid the risk of having to tell you this shocker, they just don’t tell you, only for you to find out after their death. This may or may not be due to personal reasons but for a lot of parents, their will might include donations to charities or the people who have been faithful to them over the years and not the children. But irrespective of whether everything’s fine between you’ll or not, they might not reveal this little piece of big information to you.
4. That they love your sibling more than they love you.
This won’t be ever told to you, because it probably isn’t true. So contrary to the popular belief among kids that their parents favour the other child more because they like him/her better, it’s not that! Parents love all their children equally and have no personal favorites.
5. That what you did hurt them.
No matter what brawl you got yourself in, no matter what harsh words you used, no matter what actions you took, there will always be something that your parents don’t tell you. And that is to tell you how much what you did hurt them. How they secretly cried and hoped and wished that things weren’t the same. That you weren’t the same. That you treated them better. But they won’t. Its for you to realize and understand.
6. That they dropped you when you were a kid.
What if the phrase were true? What if when somebody laughingly says that to you and brush it off but then someday horrifyingly realize it to be true? Except you won’t. Because most parents would never tell you that they did in fact, accidentally drop you as a kid and there actually might be something wrong with you..
7. That you’ll are rich.
Though children will know the basic financial condition of his/her family, the actual finances shall be hidden from the kids most of the times and parents refrain from telling them that they actually have a lot of cash stacked in places due to a lot of reasons, a lot of fears. So, chances are if you don’t know anything about the money your parents are making, it might be a lot and you might never know.
8. That one of them is having health problems.
Parents might actually never tell you that wither one of them or both have health problems that they are extremely worried about, just because they dont don’t want you to get anxious and worry. They will also take care of your health and your well being but when it comes to them, you are always a kid for them so they’ll want to do it themselves.
9. Ask you to take the car.
There’s a high chance that parents will not tell you take the car as they might be afraid you’d bang it somewhere and get hurt in the process. Especially with teens, they tend to be rash and spontaneous, so with this rebellious nature of theirs, parents think it best to not encourage their children to drive, not until they are sure, anyway..which might be never!
10. That they’re spying on you over the net.
Most parents have accounts in social networking sites or have downloaded apps that make them feel like they are a little more closer to their children. This way, to all those children who don’t tell them things, things that they want to know about. Parents find out for themselves by spying or stalking them.
11. About sex.
Most parents, especially Indian parents will refrain from talking to their children about sex as they are orthodox and sometimes backward in nature. They think they might be encouraging the children and therefore, kind of avoid the talk as it might get embarrassing for both parties. This is why most children find out about sex from everyone else but their parents.
12. That your friend’s marks don’t matter.
Because they do! This is like a no brainer. No matter which parent, where, he/she will always be concerned about the marks of your friends/relatives/anyone your age/anyone who has scored more than you. So even if your parent night actually believe that marks don’t really matter, they will never really tell it to you. Never.